Tonga: Society structure

Every person plays a role unique to their status in Tongan Society based on the concept of sharing your blessings afforded you with those for whom you are responsible. This tradition comes from the belief that no one grows up alone, people don’t successfully accomplish tasks without help from others, and happiness cannot be found when one is alone. In a thriving village, Tongans live together, work together, and help each other. Gatherings and celebrations within the villages help families strengthen their relationships with each other.

Those of royal birth carry the highest status in the village. In a family, the highest status belongs to the Fahu, the father’s oldest sister.

Those of high status may receive the best foods, housing, clothing and opportunities, but they reciprocate by extending generous support to all their family members. If you’re going to see Ha: Breath of Life during your visit, notice how these traditions are reflected in the Tongan section of the program.

Want to learn more? Feel free to ask a villager about his or her position in the family and how they fulfill the responsibilities of that station.